Husband's Birthday!

Today my husband turns 27 =) I'm so sad that I can't be there to take him to dinner and bake a cake, but regardless I would like to wish my hubs a Happy 27th Birthday!

The birthday boy with his gift!

Our Yorkie in the guitar case

well heres how I chose to handle the "haters"

I thought about it for awhile, I have/had little to no drama in my life until milspouse.com and by me simply bringing up that some of the posting had gotten rather vile I got slammed with "We can say what we want how we want, its called free speech" bullshit, and the "I refuse to sugarcoat things, people who cant handle it should get tougher skin" First, I think both of those are lame excuses that rude, tactless people say to hide the fact that in reality they are just being a rude bitch, plane and simple. I suppose they are calling being polite, or showing restraint -"sugarcoating" their opinion. So I decided thats fine, you can continue to turn people off from this site that was originally intended to be a hub for spouses to gain information, support and friendship- none of which was occurring from these "posting bullies" but I will not be a part of it. It becomes exhausting being privately thanked for taking up for "less vocal" posters and slammed publicly by tactless posters. And since making this decision to leave a few weeks ago I have to admit I am a much happier person, all the bickering, the stories of cheating, the judging and caddyness- all out of my life now! I dont usually choose to run from things like this, but when you come to the conclusion that you are becoming less of a respectful person by stooping to their level, its time to go. I have no regrets and I hope for "newbies" concern that the site can get their act together, but I feel as long has there are the same set of stubborn posters on there, its probably won't happen for them.

Terrible weather

the past 2 days we had terrible weather, crackling lighting, booming thunder, rain so heavy you could barely see out the window! I have 2 opinions on bad weather- When I am out and about doing things I dread it, it makes moving around impossible and my hair...oh geez don't even start! (cough cough Afro) But on the other hand there are those days or nights that I get to stay in while all hell breaks loose outside, and there is something oddly peaceful about it. It almost justifies being lazy, and that was my past 2 days, doing nothing - how awesome! I made a lot of head way on the guest list to our "white wedding"- which on a totally different note- I find it so relaxing that we are already married, it makes this wedding one big celebratory party, and I look at planning in a totally different, less stressful light (that is until my mom and I bump heads against something I'm sure)

2 months of heaven!

More pictures from my summer with my handsome husband!

Night of bowling and booze

PICTURES

well I will share some pictures from my AMAZING 2 months with my husband! I will post more tomorrow!

 this RANDOM place that always lets me know I am about 2 and a half hours away from NC =)

My hubby and Dad setting up the apartment

 Eating @ Olive Garden

Beach bum

we LOVE the beach!